My Disclaimer

I have no formal degree as a counsellor or a psychologist nor any pastoral degree.


I write from my own life experiences, including the pain and heartache endured from abuse, adultery, separation and divorce from a marriage of 9 years.

Accompanied by this is the experience of abuse and separation from my natural parents; all this happened through my walk with Christ. I have been a Christian since I was very young.


My story shared with you includes my opinion from these experiences, and although it should never be seen as counsel for your personal situation, my experiences and decisions may be of help to you in some way. I was able to move ahead through the pain of this journey with the help of others who had travelled a similar road. Always remember, the circumstances and choices will be different even if the pain is very similar.


I will always support and remain faithful to marriage; I believe God designed it and with His blessing it can most definitely be a successful option.


I can offer you this: If you are travelling through a challenging relationship, please surround yourself with prayer, support and wisdom. Share with those whom you know can support and honour you as the WORTHY person you are. This relationship although a major part of your life, is not who you are, you are not defined by what is happening to you.  Most of all, pour yourself out to God and allow Him to provide all the guidance you need. Be confident in knowing that He will provide others to come alongside you in this journey, but as He loves you more than anyone else, He wants YOU to want Him.


Everything in life will pass, be it good or bad. It is through life’s experiences that we become all that we are destined to be.


What we do or experience is not us, it is a part of who we are which is Valued, Worthy, Unique and Loved.





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"Undaunted" by Christine Caine

A book I will read again!

The story that Christine shares is personal and impacting, full of honesty and openness. I related to so much of what she had to share and was extremely encouraged.

Christine is with no doubt a woman of faith, but it is the way in which she openly shares the journey of faith, including the thoughts of doubt and question and the wonder of how it will all work out that for me was the greatest encouragement.

I often feel like a lesser woman of faith when I begin to doubt, yet what I learnt from this real life story is that is the action which we take that will bring us closer to the purpose we were designed for.

I was also reminded that, from my own dark and depressive experiences, I can be used to empower and equip others; but it takes the desire to not only want change but to hang on tight to it, grip it well and move forward with it every day.

This is my first Christine Caine book, one I picked up from a recommendation, and I am so glad that I did. Christine writes in an easy to read fashion, but I found it was her honesty and humbleness before God that captured me.

I do recommend this book as a great read, but be prepared to be challenged whilst also very encouraged to become someone who is UNDAUNTED!


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